Being an Intuitive Mom is Not So Easy…..

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Being an Intuitive Mom is Not So Easy….

This past week has been an upheaval of emotions, lessons and stress for me and my son, Adam.  He came home from school sick on Wednesday afternoon with food poisoning symptoms and did not recover as quickly as we’d anticipated.  So a trip to the doctor was in order.  Friday morning he woke up in severe pain with most of it radiating on the right side of his abdomen where his appendix is located.  All his other symptoms were in line to point to this diagnosis as well, and I wanted some answers.  Off to Urgent Care we went.

I’d been giving Adam healing treatments, Reiki, and checking in with my guides along the way.  But when that “Mom” gene takes over, it is very difficult to get a clear read, especially when your own child is in pain.  All you want it to do is stop.  All you want is to see that little face smile and hear a familiar giggle or two.

We arrived at Urgent Care right when they opened but we still had many people in front of us.  A short time later we were escorted back to the triage room where Adam’s vitals were taken.  I was shocked to learn he’d lost 3.5 pounds in a just a few short days.  Off to the exam room we went.

The doctor was thorough and kind.  He examined Adam’s belly and my poor baby winced every time he was pushed and prodded.  Tests were ordered, including a blood work up to see where his stats were.  We completed a few of the other tests and soon a nurse came into the room to administer the blood test as well as start an IV, as Adam was quite dehydrated.

Once Adam knew that his blood was going to be taken, he began to panic.  Typical kid, right?  Heck…who am I kidding?  Typical pretty much anybody!  The nurse had difficulty starting a line in because Adam was dehydrated and so after poking him twice, she stopped.  She said we would just go do the x-rays and that she’d give him some time to calm down.  Thinking we had a short break, Adam began to calm down and he started to relax.  I began to work with his energy to release any false beliefs held in fear, an exercise Adam is comfortable with and knows very well.

Then a male nurse came into his room.  He was accompanied by the first female nurse who had tried to take Adam’s blood and start the IV the first time.  He said they were going to try again, because the test was very important.  There was a distinct possibility of Adam having to go to the Children’s ER and we would know more based on a blood test.

Adam’s reaction to this male nurse was not typical.  Even before he announced that he was going to take blood, Adam was cringing at the sight of him.  My son is very sociable and friendly, so I was taken back from his reaction but could not concentrate on it or read into it as I knew what else was going to happen – the blood draw.  Adam began to tense up and squirm as the two nurses held his arm and felt for a vein.  The first time they tried, Adam moved his elbow and the vein shifted so they were unsuccessful.  He cried and I tried my best to distract him and have him concentrate on me.

The medical team then moved to the back of Adam’s hand to try again.  He looked at the male nurse and said, “You’re not putting that needle in me.  Not this time.” The male nurse ignored him, and began telling me how unwilling Adam was to cooperate.  I still tried to calm my baby.  I watched as the nurse got the needle under the skin, missed the vein and began to move the needle around under the skin trying to nick a portion of it to start the blood flow.  With each movement of that needle, Adam became more enraged.  It seemed like it went on for minutes, but I’m sure it was finished sooner than that.  The male nurse removed the needle and declared that Adam had flattened his veins because he was so much in fear.  The nurse said that Adam’s “fight or flight” reflex had kicked in, and all the blood from his arms and legs was drawing into the core of his body for protection.

We were soon sent to get x-rays, and as I stood outside the room, I began to see a hologram began to take shape in front of me.  Suddenly I saw a scene play out.  This happens quite frequently when I tap into someone’s past life history.  I don’t know why it presents this way, or why I seem to be able to see this, it just IS this way.

The scene showed a young G.I. in military garb with a helmet on being taken into a room forcibly.  He was fighting the entire time as two men strapped him down on a table, taking his helmet off after he was secured.  As I stared at his face, I saw an energy that was so familiar.  Suddenly the G.I. was staring at a larger man hovering above him who was holding something in his hands.  I looked at this man and felt the energy of the male nurse, who had tried to take Adam’s blood earlier.  I heard the young G.I.  scream, “You’re not putting that needle in me this time.  I won’t let you do it.”  I suddenly knew why that soldier’s energy seemed so familiar.  This was my son in an earlier lifetime.  He’d been tortured by this crazy doctor from the opposing side of a war.

As I began to fathom all this information that came forward, Adam finished his x-ray and we went back to the exam room.  It all made sense.  The puzzle pieces began to fit together.  Adam has had his blood taken many times, even more dehydrated than what he was, and though he was not fond of the process, he did not react this strongly or as aggressively as he did this time.  The underlying trigger of this past life remembrance obviously influenced his actions.

I felt like a failure.  How could I have this “gift” and not have seen this playing out the way it did?  Why was I unable to protect my precious son from such trauma?  As my guides began to rally around us, I wanted no part of what they had to say.  I closed myself off to their guidance and explanations.  All I wanted was relief for my son.  I spoke to the doctor about what to watch for and promised I would keep Adam hydrated at home.  I did not want them to try again to start a line of fluid for him.  We went home from there and began to push fluids, which surprisingly now he was able to keep down without any problems.

“Why does God want me to be sick, Mommy?” Adam asked as he was laying on the couch.  “Why would he let me feel pain?”  I told him that I wasn’t sure how God’s mind worked, but that I was sure he did not like Adam to be sick.  Maybe God was trying to teach him to make sure he kept drinking fluids, or maybe his body needed to be reminded of something.  Adam then began to cry, “So I caused all this?” he asked.  My heart began to break.  I assured him that it wasn’t his fault and that it was mine for not making sure he was doing what his body needed.

I struggled to find the higher purpose in all this.  I wanted an answer and I wanted a LOGICAL answer not a foo-foo shee-shee beat around the bush ascension answer.  I wanted the plain and simple truth.  When I got to a place of quiet, I asked for my guides to have a pow wow.  It seems as if the Angels were conversing among themselves as to how to answer my question.  Michael stepped forward and said:

“For you to understand the purpose of this would mean that you would have to be detached from your son.  Therefor you cannot have complete understanding.  But you can move to a place of acceptance; acceptance that you do not have all the answers, for you do not contract for the lessons of another soul.  May I remind you, Dear One, that now with the awareness of this other lifetime, you can assist Adam in healing on all levels just as you have so many others.  Do you know the weight this will lift from him in his years to come?  It is not merely the karma he has with that man, but it is the fear and sickness you can also help in clearing.  YOU have that control; the ability to be the way-shower, the tender heart of compassion and kindness through your gifts and energy of the soul that you are.  You do not have control to impead upon another’s lessons or their path for that is in direct contrast to the concept of free will.  This is not your cross to bear.  Do not take ownership of another’s lessons.  Instead of focusing on the lack and where you feel you have failed, instead see the good that can come of this situation.  You block not only your own light when you choose these negative vibrations, but you also block the light that you could be giving to others. “

His words sunk in on a deep level.  I took a deep breath and allowed them to wash over me.  I realized that I had not willingly subjected my son to this experience, but that for whatever reason I needed to accept it and move forward.  I began working with Adam’s higher self to clear the past life triggers.  It was as simple as setting an intention and it was complete.  Adam began feeling better quickly.  He bounced back with no further mention of what had happened.

I realized I could learn a lot from my son.  He is transparent.  He allows his feelings to come to the surface, not afraid to hide them.  When he expresses them, they flow through him and he moves on.  There is no harboring of negative emotion.  There is just light.  Plain and simple.

I am blessed with the most amazing teacher in my life.  Thank you, Adam.  Being a mom who can see into other realms and pick up on energies isn’t easy, but you sure make it all worth it.

Parenting the Intuitive Child

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Parenting the Intuitive Child

Last night I gave a lecture on Parenting the Intuitive Child at Spirit Within U here in Las Vegas.  Many parents and children were in attendance, and there were many who could not be there that wanted a recap of the evening.  Within this post you will find my lecture notes and later on today I hope to get the audio of the evening’s event posted online.  When I do, I will post the link here.

I can’t begin to explain the energy in the room or the magic that was created last night.  The excitement of parents and children coming together to learn was amazing.  Little ones from age three on up to young adults aged 18 and 19 were in the room all gathered for one purpose: to gain further understanding.

A five year old boy asked a question about a little girl he kept seeing in his house.  He wanted to know if she needed help and why.  He told me her name was, “Shiny” and that she’d been burnt in a fire.  The boy felt she needed help, but wasn’t sure what to do.  It literally brought tears to my eyes as I tapped into the energy he was experiencing as well as the plight of the little girl.  I explained to the boy that the little girl was frightened and confused.  When the fire happened in her house, she was afraid of the flames and the light and heat they gave off.  She became trapped and died there.  As the tunnel of light came down for her to cross over, she mistakenly thought that it was more light and flames from the fire and ran away, not knowing that this was a way home to the other side.  I walked the young boy through calling in Arch Angel Gabriel to help the little girl cross.  What a brave boy to ask such a question in a room of about 40 other strangers.  Such a bright light!

A ten year old girl wanted to know how to discern between “good” spirits and “bad” spirits.  I asked her how the apparition made her feel, letting her know that if she ever feels threatened or scared, she has the power to command any spirit to leave.  This beautiful young lady stayed for at least an hour after the lecture connecting with other children.  She came running up to me thrilled that she had met another telepath and told me she’d given him a past life reading and how they recognized each other.  At ten years old!!!!  WOW!

Many questions were asked from the audience, but even more questions came after the lecture.  One young woman had a dark attachment, another young man could not shut off the voices of spirits, a family had a dark energy in there home that waking there three boys, and a grandmother was awakened at night by the spirits of her deceased husband and friend.  They all wanted clarity and understanding.  They wanted answers.  They wanted solutions.

This is real, people.  This is how we begin.  You want the world to change?  These children are the a huge part of that shift towards making this planet a better place.  Let us empower them.  They have much to teach us.

My lecture notes follow.

Angel Blessings,



What constitutes an Intuitive Child?

 There are many categories and definitions of “special children” in our society.  First came the Indigos, followed by the Crystals, then the Rainbows and now the Human Angels.  I could spend eons of time delving into the characteristics of each presumed label, but I prefer not to label children.  Instead, I prefer to recognize their strengths and empower them to utilize their gifts rather than confine them to a definition that society may place upon them.

 Intuition is derived by many different ways.  If your child seems to feel things on a deep level, they may also feel the emotions and energy of others, they are most likely an empath.  To see things outwardly, like energy and spirit forms as well as images from another’s memory, is to be clairvoyant.  If you hear things, spirit messages and energetic information, this is called clairaudience.  To feel and receive information about others through your primary senses is to be clairsentient.  To have clear knowing, where you just know something, like the thoughts pops into your head, is to be claircognizant.

 Is everyone intuitive?

Yes, we all have these abilities.  Children have very strong gifts because they come into this world wide open – their senses are heightened and they have no experience of people teaching them anything otherwise.

With the changes in energy most recently in December of 2012 all of these abilities have been heightened.

What makes me an expert on this subject?

I began seeing spirits at the foot of my bed when I was three years old.  No one believed me.  They told me it was my imagination.  I was scolded and punished for “lying” about things and making them up.

By the time I was five, I was telling people I was sure I would die of fright by having a heart attack.  I was afraid of the dark, would wet my bed at night because the ghosts were making contact – some of them being not so nice and downright tormented me.

My siblings would tease me, even hide under my bed and pull at my ankles when I would get up in the morning.  I developed anxiety which later on turned into an eating disorder.

People didn’t understand me.  I still had friends, but when I would tell them something they’d said that I shouldn’t know about, it freaked them out.  I was the one that was always chosen to lead a séance or play light as a feather at slumber parties because everyone knew I could get them to the point of being scared out of their minds.

I desperately wanted to just shut off my abilities.  They frightened me.  My family didn’t believe me.  The few people I met in school that did seem to understand were not positive.  They taught me of the dark side of psychic ability – of manipulation, spell casting with intent to control, and of connecting to dark energies.

This actually manifested into physical dis-ease and I began passing out at school, repeatedly.  As I look back now, I find it as my saving grace, a gift from the angels.  By being removed from the situation, I was able to create distance and break contact with the individuals who I allowed to influence me.

Had I had a mentor in my life then, I know things would have been different.  I know I wouldn’t have begun drinking at a young age to numb out.  I know I wouldn’t have taken on an eating disorder to try my best to have some sense of control in my life.  I always felt that everything from the outside was controlling me, including my abilities.

I’ve worked many years assisting children.  I have three kids of my own; have been the room-mom, Girl Scout Leader, soccer mom, PTA board member, etc. etc. etc.  I’ve seen kids that are so wide open to the rest of the world they experience sensory overload and act out because of it.

My intention in teaching children and parents is to empower them.  It is to teach them tools and skills to strengthen their abilities and to live in balance with them.

My intention here tonight is also to create a sense of community.  I want kids to know they are not alone, that there are many others out there just like them.  I want parents to know that they also can form a support system.  It takes a village, doesn’t it?  Let us form that support system here and now.

Through amazing teachers in my life, I’ve been able to fully invest in my gifts without fear, and use them to be of service.  I want to pay that forward.  There is no reason a child has to suffer like I did.

The path of a sensitive child

It’s tough enough when you’re growing up with all the pressures that are present: fitting in, building a positive self-esteem, learning new things.  When you’re sensitive on top of all of it, it compounds the process.  Imagine being in a room full of other hormonal teens, and feeling all their stuff on top of your own.  Not so easy and extremely overwhelming.

 I have found that sensitive kids walk a fine line.  Some seek out being perfect in everything they do, while others act out because they do not understand what they’re feeling and sensing.  It’s not something they can just turn off.

 Allow me to demonstrate that for you.  Close your eyes.  I’m going to ask you to stop hearing the words I speak.  Are you ready?  1-2-3…can you still hear me?  Right, you can.  Intuition is just like any of your other five senses.  It is a part of you.  You can cover your ears, even put earphones on to block out my voice.  But that’s only going to last for a little while.

 Sensitive children who are not shown ways to focus their energies and gifts sometimes seek out alternative ways to “block out the noise.”  I’ve witnessed many a gifted child resort to cutting, drug use or complete withdrawal as a result of wanting to escape from things they do not understand.  This leads to many problems and deep pain for the child and the entire family.

 I convey this to you, not to strike fear into your heart, but just to pass along my knowledge.  It is time these children learn that who they are and what they can do is NORMAL.  It is not something to hide or to be ashamed about.  If someone makes fun of them or shuns them in any way, it is simply because they are coming from a place of inadequate information.  Perhaps one day, long ago, someone they loved and trusted told them they were bad for using their gifts, and that is all they know.

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Join us for an open evening of discussion with Master Teacher and Intuitive, Danielle Garcia, as we delve into the subject of children with abilities of intuitive sight, clairvoyance, mediumship and empathic tendencies. So often these children are misunderstood and lack the tools and insight necessary to make their lives easier. Danielle began seeing spirits and energy at the age of three and lacked a mentor to assist her in comprehending what she experienced. She has the personal experience of being a sensitive child and through time has embraced her gifts to become an empowered adult and teacher.
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